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(Physician , heal thy self!)
The devil loves to keep us busy, mentally judging the faults of others. That way, we never see or deal with what is wrong with us! We cannot change others, only God can. We cannot change ourselves either, but we can cooperate with the Holy Spirit and allow Him to do the work. Step one to any freedom, however, is to face the truth the Lord is trying to show us. When we have our thoughts and conversation on what is wrong with everyone else , we are usually being deceived about our own conduct. Therefor , Jesus commanded that we not concern ourselves with what is wrong with others when we have so much wrong with ourselves. Allow God to deal with you first, and then you will learn the scriptural way of helping your brother grow in his Christian walk.
(See Matthew 7:3-5).